{"id":331,"date":"2008-09-30T10:00:19","date_gmt":"2008-09-30T09:00:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.jurecuhalev.com\/blog\/?p=331"},"modified":"2008-09-30T10:23:45","modified_gmt":"2008-09-30T09:23:45","slug":"postponing-gratification-sociology-tip-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.jurecuhalev.com\/blog\/postponing-gratification-sociology-tip-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Postponing gratification: Sociology tip #2"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Pulling an all-nighter in a startup is not much different from studying really hard for that exam in University or opening a book in high school, when there were so many more interesting things to do.<\/p>\n<div class=\"zemanta-img zemanta-action-dragged\">\n<figure style=\"width: 240px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/7282621@N04\/2893244066\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" title=\"!!  \u00d9\u02c6\u00d9\u201e\u00d8\u00a7 \u00d8\u00af\u00d8\u00a7\u00d8\u00b1\u00d9\u2030 \u00d8\u00a8\u00d8\u00ad\u00d9\u2020\u00d9\u0160\u00d9\u2020\u00d9\u2030 \u00d8\u00a7\u00d9\u201e\u00d9\u0160\u00d9\u0192\" src=\"http:\/\/farm4.static.flickr.com\/3262\/2893244066_b3a70523a7_m.jpg\" alt=\"!!  \u00d9\u02c6\u00d9\u201e\u00d8\u00a7 \u00d8\u00af\u00d8\u00a7\u00d8\u00b1\u00d9\u2030 \u00d8\u00a8\u00d8\u00ad\u00d9\u2020\u00d9\u0160\u00d9\u2020\u00d9\u2030 \u00d8\u00a7\u00d9\u201e\u00d9\u0160\u00d9\u0192\" width=\"240\" height=\"131\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image by _ A \u00d0\u00bc a n t e QTR \u00c2\u00a9  \u00e2\u2122\u00a5 .. via Flickr<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<p>Sociology of <strong><a class=\"zem_slink\" title=\"Social class\" rel=\"wikipedia\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Social_class\">social classes<\/a><\/strong> (in it\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s really simplified form), teaches us that one of the most important qualities of <em><a class=\"zem_slink\" title=\"Middle class\" rel=\"wikipedia\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Middle_class\">middle class<\/a><\/em> is that it\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s able to postpone <a class=\"zem_slink\" title=\"Gratification\" rel=\"wikipedia\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Gratification\">gratification<\/a> to a later date. Studying for many years often throughout summer and holidays, working on a project while others party are prime examples of this.<\/p>\n<p>Looking at the situation in short term, it seems that others have much more fun and enjoyment, than we do. Which is exactly what\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s happening, with the idea that in a longer run we can outperform them since the cumulative <a class=\"zem_slink\" title=\"Added value\" rel=\"wikipedia\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Added_value\">added value<\/a> of our work will be much greater.<\/p>\n<p>The Mind Hack in this case is that, you just have to decide that not getting <a class=\"zem_slink\" title=\"Deferred gratification\" rel=\"wikipedia\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Deferred_gratification\">instant gratification<\/a> for your current work is part of the social class we live and thus continue working on whatever hard and often not enjoyable task we\u00e2\u20ac\u2122re occupied at that moment.<\/p>\n<p>It\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s not the nicest idea, but our current observations of society show us that this is how the system currently works. Knowing the rules should give us a bit of advantage over others.<\/p>\n<div class=\"zemanta-pixie\" style=\"margin-top: 10px; height: 15px;\"><a class=\"zemanta-pixie-a\" title=\"Zemified by Zemanta\" href=\"http:\/\/reblog.zemanta.com\/zemified\/265d126a-1385-47b5-ad8b-38282217f10d\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"zemanta-pixie-img\" style=\"border: medium none; float: right;\" src=\"http:\/\/img.zemanta.com\/reblog_c.png?x-id=265d126a-1385-47b5-ad8b-38282217f10d\" alt=\"Reblog this post [with Zemanta]\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Pulling an all-nighter in a startup is not much different from studying really hard for that exam in University or opening a book in high school, when there were so many more interesting things to do. 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