{"id":533,"date":"2008-11-17T09:45:33","date_gmt":"2008-11-17T08:45:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.jurecuhalev.com\/blog\/?p=533"},"modified":"2008-11-16T19:31:19","modified_gmt":"2008-11-16T18:31:19","slug":"choosing-correct-peers-for-peer-pressure","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.jurecuhalev.com\/blog\/choosing-correct-peers-for-peer-pressure\/","title":{"rendered":"Choosing correct peers for peer pressure"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Lately I&#8217;ve been observing interesting phenomena regarding <a class=\"zem_slink\" title=\"Peer pressure\" rel=\"wikipedia\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Peer_pressure\">peer pressure<\/a>. Most of the things that we do, we do because we&#8217;re prompted by our peers. That&#8217;s perfectly fine, since this is the way by nature&#8217;s design.<\/p>\n<p>The issue is that we have to choose carefully which peers we decide to listen and be influenced by. Stereotypical example of this would be <strong>bad company<\/strong>\u00a0that influences you to start drinking, robbing old ladies and overall <em>misbehave<\/em>. But that&#8217;s taking it to negative (?) extreme.<\/p>\n<div class=\"zemanta-img zemanta-action-dragged\">\n<figure style=\"width: 240px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/12392252@N03\/2400968792\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" title=\"Telephones - Bangkok ;   \" src=\"http:\/\/farm3.static.flickr.com\/2355\/2400968792_6866b43bd7_m.jpg\" alt=\"Telephones - Bangkok ;   \" width=\"240\" height=\"148\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-caption-text\">Image by Sailing &quot;Footprints: Real to Reel&quot; (Ronn ashore) via Flickr<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<p>Then there is positive influence from your peers. The one that forces you to continue studying, take up new hobbies or just stop eating meat and cooked foods ;). There&#8217;s just only one problem with that. As much as your work peers (for example) are\u00a0enthusiastic\u00a0about you going <a class=\"zem_slink\" title=\"Veganism\" rel=\"wikipedia\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Veganism\">vegan<\/a> or something of that nature, they won&#8217;t be able to give you\u00a0adequate\u00a0support.<\/p>\n<p>That why it&#8217;s important that when you&#8217;re choosing up new positive habits to also find a proper <a class=\"zem_slink\" title=\"Support group\" rel=\"wikipedia\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Support_group\">support group<\/a> for it.\u00a0Preferably\u00a0within a group of people that already went through similar transformation and can advise and cheer you and will know that you&#8217;re going to be break, even before you do.<\/p>\n<p><em>(Random thought: wouldn&#8217;t be a group called\u00a0<strong>carrot chewers anonymous<\/strong> be a great place to talk about going meat free?)<\/em><\/p>\n<div class=\"zemanta-pixie\" style=\"margin-top: 10px; height: 15px;\"><a class=\"zemanta-pixie-a\" title=\"Zemified by Zemanta\" href=\"http:\/\/reblog.zemanta.com\/zemified\/b7e56cd8-f993-4281-9555-0dac770eb5c1\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"zemanta-pixie-img\" style=\"border: none; float: right;\" src=\"http:\/\/img.zemanta.com\/reblog_e.png?x-id=b7e56cd8-f993-4281-9555-0dac770eb5c1\" alt=\"Reblog this post [with Zemanta]\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Lately I&#8217;ve been observing interesting phenomena regarding peer pressure. Most of the things that we do, we do because we&#8217;re prompted by our peers. That&#8217;s perfectly fine, since this is the way by nature&#8217;s design. The issue is that we have to choose carefully which peers we decide to listen and be influenced by. 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